The mindset of learning to love yourself without overestimating yourself, is a powerful tool. A big ego can seem like a strength but it leads to unhappiness as much as lack of self-esteem can lead to not having or enforcing boundaries. A balanced ego helps you get out of your own way and become a happier and more productive member of society.
One Secret to Taking Control of Your Life. When you’re overwhelmed, feeling unlucky or facing challenges in life it can seem easy to blame others, your circumstances or fate. If you believe that and repeat it often enough you will feel powerless to change anything. Choose to see everything in your life as your responsibility and start making some changes. You’ll eventually enjoy the power that comes with it.